Loner4life, 42

Since turning 26, I have been forcing myself to come out of my shell socially. I went from saying hello to the random neighbors, to attempting a few friendships, trying a few online social networking sites, & last year I allowed myself to be open to the IDEA of dating... well, I just turned 30, so my goal this year is to actually GO out on at least one date. So, I'll see how that one goes.haha.
Few factors one should be aware of though. I'm Atheist, but highly spiritual. I don't drug or drink or party, but I smoke cigs. I am a stay at home Mom & Aunt to 6 kids, and they will ALWAYS come first. My only real vanity about men is body hair, facial mainly, beards especially. I've been celibate a couple of years at a time, so don't come at me expecting that. In my 'choosing' to go out of my comfort zone more, I'm choosing to give someone a real and valid shot at attempting an honest thing. Don't worry, I'm not that great, if we never meet or we don't click~ you're not missing out. On a side note, a make a better Friend than GirlFriend.;]