Safemouse, 49

Looking for someone who shares my hobby I am a slightly eccentric Englishman currently working in China but in fact with no fixed abode. I put a roof over my head by teaching English as a foreign language but when I'm not doing that I work on my paranormal documentary, write my novel or listen to and occasionally make music. I think I've now reached a point in my life where I've figured out I want to be with someone who I can explore the paranormal with. I've found it impossible to meet anyone in China who shares my interest in ghosts and to be fair, there aren't many ghosts here. So I am just restricted to ghost hunting in the UK in the summer, where there are plenty. I don't really care if my future partner believes or doesn't believe, but an interest in the subject is important. I am not particularly new agey or gothy or given to decorating my living space morbidly, my interior space is weird enough. In fact, if you didn't see my ghost books on the shelf I don't think you'd have me down for a ghost enthusiast. The other thing is, I don't think ghosts are the most important thing in the world. I think interpersonal relations are, and the truth is I am not a people person, I go all gooey when I see a dog or a cat but I warm to people slowly. Finally, I see ghosts as part of a bigger picture that includes Near Death Experiences, UFOs and re-incarnation. I am interested in those things too, but I have a particular affinity for ghosts. I like children but I have no plans to have any myself at the moment. That might change but I am not broody. For the time, I'm just happy being an uncle. What else can I say? This is somewhat of a rambling stream of consciousness. I'm a vegetarian but not militant, I can be very serious or zany, hyper interesting and sometimes quite boring.